Chuckle: "What do reindeer have that no other
animals on earth have? Baby reindeer."
Good Quote: "Twas a thief who said
the last word to Christ: Christ took the kindness and forgave the theft."
--Robert Browning
SHOWING KINDNESS
"Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always try
to be kind to each other and to everyone else" (1 Thessalonians 5:15 NIV).
I wrote this ten years ago to the
day. As you read, please think about the urgent need for kindness toward all
those with whom we interact, and compare the level of kindness in people today
with the way I described it ten years ago.
A few days ago, Dotse and I were
riding in the car and thinking about the approach of Christmas. I mentioned to
her how kind everyone seems to be lately. We discussed it at length and wondered
about it. My heart has been warmed in recent days by extraordinary kindness from
people around me. I have always heard that Christmas tends to bring out the best
in people, but this year something unusual is going on -- at least from my
perspective.
I have recently had encounters
with servers in restaurants, medical personnel, insurance advisors, financial
specialists, and sales personnel, and everyone has been extraordinarily kind,
courteous, and helpful. It's as if people have suddenly been inoculated against
unkindness. Maybe the kindness serum has been mixed in with the new H1N1 flu
vaccine!!. Not likely, you say. I agree. But maybe it's not from a vaccine but
something even more powerful and effective.
Could it be that God is getting
the attention of people who are becoming fed up with hateful, discourteous,
dishonest, and hurtful attitudes that have been prevalent in our society in
recent years. Selfishness, greed, and lust have made many of us disgusting
people to be around. What's in it for me has replaced concern for the welfare of
others. I wonder, also, if the severe economic downturn has prompted people to
reexamine their values with the intent to discover the really important things
in life -- relationships.
Notice in our passage that
we, as believers, are first to be kind to one another. Then we are to show
kindness to everyone else as well. "The Lord's servants must not quarrel but must be kind to
everyone. They must be able to teach effectively and be patient with
difficult people. They should gently teach those who oppose the truth. Then they
will come to their senses and escape the Devil's trap. . ."
(2 Timothy 2:24-26 NLT). If you and I
are living under the control of the Holy Spirit who resides in us, we will
practice kindness because kindness is a supernatural fruit of the Spirit, along
with love, joy, peace,
patience, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self
control (Galatians 5:22).
The unusual
kindnesses that have been shown to me in recent days, have made me examine my
own heart and prompted me to show more kindness in return. Treating people with
kindness is such a simple solution to so many relationship problems. It's
amazing that we aren't more faithful in its application. "A kind man benefits himself,
but a cruel man brings trouble to himself" (Proverbs 11:17 NIV).
Love, Jerry & Dotse