Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Delight In The Lord

Chuckle:  On his first safari, the American visitor sidled up to the experienced native guide and said smugly, “I know that carrying a torch will keep the lions away.”  “That’s true,” the guide replied, “but it depends on how fast you carry the torch.”
Quote: "O Lord our God, grant us grace to desire thee with our whole heart; that so desiring, we may seek, and seeking, find thee; and so finding thee, may love thee; and loving thee, may hate those sins from which thou hast redeemed us." --St. Anselm
    "Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4 NIV).
Do you and I really know and understand the deepest desires of our hearts? I think many of us deal mostly with the superficial wants in our lives, but do not take the time to let God show us how to touch the innermost and most important desire of our hearts. We may think we know what we want and go about trying to get it while our deepest yearning goes unsatisfied -- the desire that please God most. Yes, it is God's desire that you delight in Him; that you find your ultimate joy and pleasure in Him.
As God created us, He designed and shaped us to desire and delight in Him above all else. The psalmist put that desire this way, "As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, O God" (Psalm 42:1 NIV). God made our hearts for Himself because He understands that we will only be truly happy and content when He becomes our greatest delight. As we take delight in our Lord, we will commit our life to Him, and everything we do will be to glorify Him.
How do we go about making God our greatest desire and delight? Well, let's think about it from a human relationship point of view. When we delight in someone, it's usually someone we know well and we experience great pleasure and extreme joy while in his or her presence. Similarly, if we are to delight in the Lord, we must draw closer to Him and constantly seek to know Him better by spending time with Him. Also, our delight is heightened when we stop to consider how much He loves us.
If lasting happiness and contentment could be found in having material things, then most of us should be deliriously happy and content beyond description. But the things of this world can never bring us the contentment and fulfillment for which our God-made hearts so desperately yearn. Without God there will always be a great unfilled void in our lives. But if we continue to seek our happiness in the Lord, He will provide what our hearts desire most -- peace and contentment. If we delight in the Lord and seek Him as our most treasured possession, He will give us our greatest desire which, in reality, is Himself.
"Rejoice in the Lord always, I will say it again; Rejoice!” (Philippians 4:4 NIV).

Love, Jerry & Dotse

Thursday, September 25, 2014

Condemning Other Christians

Chuckle: A child prayed, "Dear God, Thank you for the baby brother but I asked for a puppy. I never asked for anything before. You can look it up." Joyce

Quote: “As we learn to shorten the time between offense and forgiveness, there becomes no time left for anger or vindictiveness.”  --Unknown source 


   "So why do you condemn another Christian? Why do you look down on another Christian? Remember, each of us will stand personally before the judgment seat of God. . . Yes, each of us will give a personal account to God. So don't condemn each other anymore. Decide instead to live in such a way that you will not put an obstacle in another Christian's path" (Romans 14:10,12-13 NLT).

As we study the history of the Christian faith and church, we find numerous incidences where spiritual pride was the basis for criticisms of fellow believers. There are some Christian practices that the Bible leaves open to interpretation, and these differences of interpretation have often become major sources of disagreement and conflict. In Romans, chapter 14, Paul deals with this issue. His thesis is that in Christian practice where there is room for interpretation, we are to accept one another in love even when we disagree.

I know many Christians who practice some aspects of their faith and worship differently than I do, but this makes them no less faithful to their Lord. If a person has been saved by God's grace through faith in Jesus Christ, and Him alone, as Savior and Lord and is committed to serving Him, the principle requirement of faith has been fulfilled. We should always be considerate, encouraging and accepting of other Christians rather than being critical, condescending and condemning. 

It's true that the church must stand fast against practices that are expressly forbidden in God's Word, but we should not create additional rules and regulations and make them as important as God's specific instructions. Too often believers base their judgments of others on personal opinion, preference or adherence to a tradition. By doing so, our own lack of faith is exposed in that we don't think God is strong enough to guide His children without our help. 

Paul's message is that we should remain strong in our faith while being sensitive to the faith of others. When we consider the feelings of others before our own, we will always be amazed at the response we will receive. It is very difficult for people to return unkindness when they become convinced they are loved and appreciated -- when they know their best interests are a major consideration in a relationship. 

None of us is so strong in our faith that we are without weaknesses and we should always be concerned about the effects of our behavior on others. As we grow in our faith, we will become more concerned about giving an account to God for our own actions rather than judging those of others.

Love, Jerry & Dotse

Wednesday, September 24, 2014

Unity Among Christians

Chuckle: More fun with the English language: "After a number of Novocain injections, my jaw got number."
Quote: "The whole Christian life is that we are totally one with each other in the church, that Christ has given himself totally to us in oneness." --Fr Peter Ball
    "Always keep yourselves united in the Holy Spirit , and bind yourselves together with peace. We are all one body, we have the same Spirit, and we have all been called to the same glorious future" (Ephesians 4:3-4 NLT).
Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., had a dream that our nation would truly come together around the concept that all people are created equal, and that this national unity would usher in a spirit of good will and understanding within our citizenry, regardless of race, ethnicity or social standing. This is a worthy goal for each of us and for our nation.
We know that Dr. King's dream will only come to fruition when we allow God to change each of our hearts. Such unity and understanding can never be legislated, mandated or dictated, but must grow from within our hearts. Unfortunately, we often see a lack of unity even among Christians, and until this situation is rectified, the full attainment of Dr. King's dream for our nation will remain distant and unrealized.
In our passage, Paul is pleading for unity within the body of Christ, the church. When believers live in unity, it is a beautiful thing to behold and an amazing testimony to the power of God's love and His Holy Spirit. Perhaps each of us should do some self-evaluation of our attitudes toward Christian unity. One of the Holy Spirit's most important roles is to build unity as He leads us and teaches us. But we must be willing to have our hearts and attitudes changed, toward both fellow believers and other people in general.
This can only happen when we keep our focus on God rather than ourselves and our likes and dislikes. Dissention within the church often occurs over the most petty and insignificant issues. When a disagreement is not dealt with, it will grow, fester and become a major source of conflict. When a brother or sister does something differently than the way you would do it, immediately stop, think, and pray about the disunity that will occur if you are unforgiving and make it a big issue.
We must all remember that we who belong to Christ are a part of one body (church) under one Head, Jesus Christ. None of us enjoys a higher standing with God than everyone else. We are all equal in God's sight and problems arise when our sight and God's sight are not the same. Jesus prayed to the Father that "they (we) may be one as we (He and the Father) are one: . . . May they be brought to complete unity to let the world know that you sent me . ." (John 17:22b-23 NIV). As we unify in love around a common purpose, we can be a positive influence for unity in our world.

Love, Jerry & Dotse 

Tuesday, September 23, 2014

Showing Respect For The Elderly

Chuckle: "When you are dissatisfied and would like to go back to youth, think of Algebra." --Will Rogers
Quote: “When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life in such a way that when you die, the world will cry and you will rejoice.” –Unknown   
    "Rise in the presence of the aged, show respect for the elderly and revere your God. I am the LORD" (Leviticus 19:32 NIV). "Listen to your father, who gave you life, and do not despise your mother when she is old. . . . "May your father and mother be glad; may she who gave you birth rejoice" (Proverbs 23:22, 25 NIV).
In our last lesson, we addressed the need to respect and honor all people with emphasis on the elderly. Scriptures are replete with admonitions concerning how we should treat the elderly with love and respect. I ran across a Bible lesson by Samuel Simmons on this subject. After a discussion on showing respect to the elderly, he asked the question, "What about you?" Following are his words.
Try to imagine yourself at over 80 years of age (no imagination is required for some of us). Think about how you would want to be treated. When you do, you probably see that patronizing sympathy or superficial pity falls far short of showing respect. . . What form of respect might you want in your later years? Consider these possibilities:
    * The respect that says, "You still matter to God." When you hurt, God cares. When you are lonely, God is there. When you feel abandoned, God is faithful.
    * The respect that says, "You still have purpose in the world.". . . God invites elderly persons to join Him in His kingdom work. When you feel useless, God gives you purpose.
    * The respect that says, "I'm interested in your life." What was your vocation? Where did you live? "What do you think of this or that national crisis? . . . What are the top lessons you have learned in life?
    * The respect that says, "God forgives you." Did you make mistakes? Did you hurt others? Do you have regrets? No failure in life lies beyond the powerful forgiveness possible in Jesus Christ.
    * The respect that says, "If you need me, I'm here for you." Is someone trying to take advantage of you? Is someone asking you to do something that makes you uncomfortable? Let me know and I will help you if I can.
    * The respect that says, "I want to hear your opinion." Do you have a different view than mine? Does your life experience tell you something different? Help me understand what you are thinking. I will listen. "Is not wisdom found in the aged? Does not long life bring understanding" (Job 12:12 NIV).
One final thought from Mr. Simmons: The way we treat our elders is the model our children and others may use in relating to us when we are old. If that is true, how will those younger persons treat us when we are old? We may be writing the script right now by the way we treat the elderly.

Love, Jerry & Dotse 

Monday, September 22, 2014

Respect For The Elderly

Chuckle: "We could certainly slow the aging process down if it had to work its way through Congress." -- Will Rogers
Quote: "Life is short, and we have never too much time for gladdening the hearts of those who are traveling the dark journey with us. Oh, be swift to love, make haste to be kind!" --Henri Frederic Amiel
    "Never speak harshly to an older man, but appeal to him respectfully as though he were your own father. Talk to younger men as you would to your own brothers. Treat the older women as you would your mother, and treat the younger women with all purity as your own sisters" (1 Timothy 5:1-2 NLT).
In general, there seems to be a growing attitude of disrespect for others in our society. Many have little or no respect for authority and little respect for themselves or others, especially the elderly. I read somewhere that a good measure of a nations health is the way it treats its elderly. No doubt you have seniors in your family, community, and church who yearn to know they are loved, respected and appreciated. Their long lives reflect God's honor and blessings on them and has given them the time to increase in knowledge and wisdom. Ignoring this great reservoir of wisdom shows a definite lack of respect on our part.
I don't want to appear self-serving, since I am a member of our older generation, but the seniors in America are deserving of respect and honor because of their tremendous contribution to the building of this great nation. Their perseverance and personal sacrifice have no doubt added significantly to our quality of life and we owe them much. Many of them are great role models of faithfulness to our Lord and sacrificial service to others. When you think of all they have done for you, an attitude of love, thanksgiving, and respect should follow.
The Bible is an all-sufficient instructional manual for our inter-personal relationships, both in our biological families as well as our spiritual families. Please note in our 1 Timothy passage that the emphasis is on giving the same respect to all people that you give to your own parents and siblings. The passage assumes respect, honor and thoughtfulness will be shown to our biological family members, and uses this as a model for how we should treat others. Unfortunately, this model of caring and respect is missing in many biological families, and sometimes even in spiritual families.
As a pastor, I have made untold numbers of visits to elderly and disabled residents of nursing homes and assisted living centers. It’s a joy to see residents regularly receiving expressions of love and respect by family members and friends. However, I’m deeply saddened when I see mothers, fathers and grandparents who have been "deposited" in such facilities and seemingly forgotten. Some residents seldom receive visits from family members who show little interest in letting them know they are loved, valued, and respected. This is a terrible tragedy which all of us need to address and do our part to correct.
Love, Jerry & Dotse

Friday, September 19, 2014


Chuckle: What do you call a dinosaur with an extensive vocabulary? The saurus.
Quote: "The fruit of wisdom is Christlikeness, peace, humility, and love; and the root of it is faith in Christ as the manifested wisdom of God." --J. I. Packer
    "The man without the Spirit does not accept the things that come from the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him, and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually discerned. The spiritual man makes judgments about all things, but he himself is not subject to any man's judgment: 'For who has known the mind of the Lord that he may instruct him?' But we have the mind of Christ" (1 Corinthians 2:14-16 NIV).
In this passage, Paul makes one thing abundantly clear -- the person who has the Holy Spirit resident within him can understand the world from God's perspective -- that is if he relies upon the Holy Spirit in his discernments. As Christians, we have access to the very mind of Christ through His indwelling Spirit and God's written Word. So, the question is not whether God has given us the ability to discern right from wrong or good from evil; but rather it is whether or not we listen to the Holy Spirit.
In Psalm 15, the psalmist asks the question: "Lord, who may dwell in your sanctuary? Who may live on your holy hill?" To state the question another way; "Who will you welcome into your presence to worship you?" In the Psalm, several characteristics are listed for the person God welcomes into His presence. Verse five says, "he who despises a vile man but honors those who fear the Lord." This requirement is one of perspective. This person must first be able to discern what is to be despised and what is to be honored -- what is good and holy in God's sight and what is vile in His sight. Such a man has a clear vision of what is good and what is evil, because he sees the world as God sees it.
As Christians, our spiritual discernment senses can become dulled so that we no longer are offended by ungodly conduct. We can find ourselves compromising our convictions and adopting some of the same moral values that God detests. I venture to say that many of us are not offended by some television programs that would have caused us to turn the TV off in disgust twenty years ago. Not only are we not offended by them, but we may have come to enjoy them. Our moral senses are no longer as keen and discerning as God wants them to be in recognizing right and wrong.
God only invites holy people into his presence for worship that pleases Him. Perhaps each of us should reevaluate our tolerance of evil, ask God's forgiveness if we have compromised our spiritual integrity, and commit ourselves anew to holy living. Then God will invite us into His holy presence for worship. As we seek to live holy lives, God will continue to sharpen our spiritual sensitivity with new abilities to discern between things of the Spirit and things of the world.

Love, Jerry & Dotse 

Friday, September 12, 2014

Apostasy: Its Consequences

Chuckle: "You know it's going to be a bad day when you turn on the news, and they are showing escape routes out of the city!"
Quote: "If we refuse to be used by God, we may be used by the godless" --William Arthur Ward
    "God gave this unchanging truth once for all time to his holy people. I say this because some godless people have wormed their way in among you, . . . The fate of such people was determined long ago, for they have turned against our only Master and Lord Jesus Christ. . . How terrible it will be for them! . . . They are like wandering stars, heading for everlasting gloom and darkness" (Jude 3b-4,11,13b NLT).
The word, "apostasy" refers to a rebellion against God and His truths, originally instigated by Satan, the apostate dragon (Job 26:13). It also means the intentional disregard for the truths of God's Word, and substituting one's own erroneous interpretations. The most dangerous apostasy for the church comes from those who know the truth, but are lured away by false teachings, and then feel it is their duty to discredit God and His church. Apostasy emerges from within the church when we begin to value worldly views more than Biblical truths.
An apostate's defection from the faith may be intellectual, perhaps from one's materialistic world view which leads to renouncement of Christianity and the church; or it may be moral and spiritual, as with Judas Iscariot, who for money betrayed his Lord. Apostasy can also be a subtle and creeping spiritual disease among Christians -- a compromise here and a compromise there. At other times it leads to a sudden and total abandonment of Christianity. Apostasy is a constant danger to the church and there are many warnings about it in Scripture. Jesus warned about apostasy in the last days. "At that time many will turn away from the faith and will betray and hate each other, and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people"  (Matthew 24:10-11 NIV).
A person can become convinced that God's Word isn't believable or doesn't make sense to his carnal mind; therefore he declares it untrue. If the apostate is a smooth communicator who preys on those not well founded in the Word, he can lead in a gradual erosion of the sacred tenets of Christianity. The result can be a watered down gospel and a church operating outside of God's will.
There are many examples of apostasy: denial of the deity of Christ; denial of the virgin birth; denial that salvation is by grace through faith in Jesus Christ and nothing else; denial that Jesus died for our sins and rose again the third day; denial that Jesus will return to earth for a second time to claim His church, etc. If we call ourselves Christians, we must be careful not to let worldly influences draw us away from the truths of God's Word and lead us into apostasy.
Love, Jerry & Dotse

Thursday, September 11, 2014

Are You Prepared?

Chuckle: An insurance man was teaching his daughter to drive. Suddenly the brakes failed. “I can’t stop,” she wailed. “What should I do?” “Don’t panic,” her father told her. “Just hit something cheap!”
Great Quote: “If you think you can walk in holiness without keeping up perpetual fellowship with Christ, you have made a great mistake. If you would be holy, you must live close to Jesus.” --Charles Haddon Spurgeon
    "So be prepared, because you do not know what day your Lord is coming. . . You must be ready all the time. For the Son of Man will come when least expected" (Matthew 24:42, 44 NLT).
How would you change your life if you knew Jesus would return tomorrow? This is an all important question for each of us. In our passage, Jesus tells us that His coming will be both unpredictable and unexpected; therefore, we should be prepared to meet Him at all times. The promise that Jesus will return to earth came from the lips of Jesus Himself.
This precious promise gives all Christians great joy and comfort from knowing our Lord will return to claim His church (all believers) and usher in the events leading to our spending eternity in His presence in a place the Bible calls heaven. The following quotation sheds additional light on this glorious event.
The New Testament writers speak of Christ's returning, "soon" or "quickly," with the apparent expectation that he might return in the writer’s own lifetime. However the meaning of returning "soon" is that it would happen "at any moment." It is like my phone answering machine. The message informs the caller that I am away from my desk but will return "soon." I use the same message whether I expect to be gone two minutes or two weeks -- for the very simple reason that I want to encourage the person without revealing exactly how long I will be gone!  --Illustrations for Biblical Preaching; Edited by Michael P. Green
Yes, Christ's return for His own will be both sudden and swift. When it happens, the opportunity to prepare for His return will have passed. Our preparations should be made now while there is still time. First, we should repent of our sins and ask Jesus Christ to come into our lives as Savior and Lord. Then we should live each day in such a way that we welcome His coming with excitement and anticipation. I heard someone say that we should never do anything for which we would be ashamed if Jesus came while we were doing it.
The apostle Paul wrote, "Remember, the Lord is coming soon" (Philippians 4:5b NLT). Jesus said, "See, I am coming soon, and my reward is with me, to repay all according their deeds" (Revelation 22:12 NLT). When He comes, our ultimate joy will be fully realized. He who gave himself for us, and whose Spirit lives within, us will have kept His promise and fulfilled His final purpose for us.
Love, Jerry & Dotse

Wednesday, September 10, 2014

The Endorsement That Matters

Chuckle: "Middle age is when you choose your cereal for the fiber, not the toy."
Quote: "Praise, my soul, the King of heaven, To His feet thy tribute bring." --Henry Frances Lyte
"This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased. Listen to him!" (Matthew 17:5 NIV)
Endorsements are important to us in many ways. When politicians are running for office, they value the endorsements of large newspapers, other prominent groups and influential leaders. It adds credibility to their candidacies when a long list of endorsements have been given them. Likewise, when a person is looking for a job, it helps if letters of recommendation accompany his or her resume. We depend on the opinions of others to help us gain the respect, approval and support we desire.
When Jesus was ministering here on earth, His identity was a major topic of conversation. Not everyone accepted His credentials as the promised Messiah. On the contrary, many not only did not believe He was who He said He was, but some even accused Him of blasphemy and being a representative of Satan.
Jesus' closest disciples had accepted Him as the Son of God and wanted others to believe as well. When Christ was transfigured before Peter, James and John, He was seen conversing with two giants of faith, Moses and Elijah (Matthew 17:1-13). In the minds of the disciples, this experience served as a powerful convincing endorsement of Jesus and solidified their confidence in His identity. As a result, it's no surprise that they wanted to tell everyone about it.
But, in our passage, the only endorsement that really mattered to Jesus was the one from God, His Father. This should be true in our own lives. As Christians, our service should be to please God, not other people. Of course, it makes us feel good when fellow Christians give us their endorsement with kind words of praise and encouragement. But the receipt of such accolades should not be our motivation for service. Like Jesus, we should only be concerned about doing the will of the Father, even if the praise of other people does not come. Perhaps these words from Paul will put endorsements in the proper perspective.
"Obviously, I'm not trying to be a people pleaser! No, I am trying to please God. If I were still trying to please people, I would not be Christ's servant"  (Galatians 1:10 NLT). Each of us should ask, "who am I trying to please when I render service to others?" Let's commit ourselves to seeking the approval of our Lord in all we do because His approval (endorsement) is the only one that really matters.
Love, Jerry & Dotse

Tuesday, September 9, 2014

Bridges of Love

Chuckle: "A thoughtful wife is one who has the steaks ready when her husband comes home from a fishing trip!"
Quote: "He who is filled with love is filled with God himself." -- St. Augustine of Hippo
    "Do to others as you would have them do to you. If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that" (Luke 6:31-33 NIV).
In 1851, James Robling made the shocking announcement that he would build a bridge across the Niagara River Gorge. Engineers said it was impossible. The span was 800 feet. The height was 200 feet. Water flowed over the Falls at 37 million gallons per minute and rushed down the Gorge. It would be impossible to set piers to support the bridge. But true to his vision, he built a suspension bridge so strong that trains could pass over it.
Jesus is the greatest bridge-builder of all time -- across time and space -- from heaven to earth -- from sin to salvation. Jesus is saying to Christians, "I want you to be like me. I want you to build bridges to others so they can walk across that bridge of your life to me." As bridge builders, we must learn two major lessons:
First, we must learn to think like Jesus. Philippians 2:5 says, "Let this mind be in you that is also in Christ Jesus." We must allow His Spirit to give us the mind of Christ. Like Jesus, we must invest ourselves in the lives of others. Jesus said, "As the Father has sent me, so I'm sending you." Jesus said, you're "salt and the light." Both of these must be put to use to have value. Salt can't season unless it is poured out. Light is useless if kept in a closet. God wants us to:
(1) Have Christ's love for hurting people. "When he (Jesus) saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd" (Matthew 9:36 NIV). The lost and hurting are the ones to which Jesus is referring (sick, hurting, hungry, naked, alone,etc.).
(2) Adopt Jesus' methods: Luke 6:36 says, "Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful" Galatians 6:10 says, "Let us do good to all people." Bridges have one purpose - they connect and allow people to move from one place to another. When we build bridges of love, we say, "don't come to our church; we're coming to you." This kind of love results in selfless good deeds. A small act of kindness says "I love you," and "there's a God who loves you."
Second, we must act like Jesus. Like Jesus, our motives must be pure and our love proven. James said in 2:17 NIV, "In the same way, faith by itself, not accompanied by action is dead. . . I will show you my faith by what I do." Jesus came from heaven to where we are and built a bridge of love between us and the Father - Jesus is that bridge, and we should be bridges to others.
Acts of kindness in Jesus' name can have amazing impact on those who have not experienced God's love. If you want to make a difference in your children, take them to where they can help someone who is hungry, sick, old, alone. If we learn to think and act like Jesus, we will build bridges of love to those around us.

Love, Jerry & Dotse

Monday, September 8, 2014

Feelings In Perspective

Chuckle: TEACHER: "Clyde, your composition on 'My Dog' is exactly the same as your brother's. Did you copy his?" CLYDE: "No, teacher, it's the same dog."
Quote: “When we have 'second thoughts' about something, our first thoughts don't seem like thoughts at all — just feelings.” --Sydney J. Harris
    "Surely you heard of Christ and were taught in Him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus. You were taught with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires (feelings); to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness"  (Ephesians 4:21-22 NIV).
The proper order for making life's decisions is facts, faith, and, finally, feelings.  “Take a strong foundation, build a house upon it, and then above the house you have the clouds and the weather. The foundation is the fact/truth of God's Word; the house is our faith settled down on the foundation; the weather represents our feelings because it is constantly changing -- coming and going." Unknown source.  Let’s consider the following two truths:
1. I should make the right decision, take the right action, and do the right things based on God's truth, not how I feel. The Bible says we are to renew our minds.  How does God renew our minds?  Through His Word -- His truth.  God wants us to choose to do the right thing even before we feel like it.  If you wait until you feel like reading your Bible, praying, attending church, witnessing, doing the right thing, you won't do much -- that is until God matures you to the point that your desires and feelings begin to correspond with His truth.  His Spirit will empower you to choose to do what's right.  Paul said we should put off the old way of thinking by saturating ourselves with divine truth, then living it -- even when we don't feel like it.
2. I should constantly affirm the truth of God's Word.  We are to "prepare our minds for action. Be self-controlled." How do you do this?  You choose to do what God says in His Holy Word.  As you affirm the truths of God's Word, you can make decisions and take actions you never thought you could make or do.   I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" (Philippians 4:13).  If you have feelings of doubt and insecurity, listen:
"This then is how we know we belong to the truth, and how we set our hearts at rest in his presence whenever our hearts condemn us. For God is greater than our hearts and he knows everything" (I John 3:19-20 NIV).
If I confess my sins, and ask God to empower me, then He will give me strength.  To win at life, we must learn to control the way we feel.  Remember, God is in control even when you feel nothing.  We must rely on His promises and His truth.  True Christian maturity comes when our feelings begin to correspond, through faith, with His truth and will.  "Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus" (Philippians 2:5 NIV).

Love, Jerry & Dotse 

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Feelings and God's Will

No posts September 4th and 5th.  Will resume Monday, September 8th.
Chuckle: "Cosmetics were used in the Middle Ages; in fact they're still used in the middle ages."
Quote: “You cannot make yourself feel something you do not feel, but you can make yourself do right in spite of your feelings.” --Pearl S. Buck
    "Do not conform yourselves any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is -- his good, pleasing and perfect will" (Rom.12:2 NIV).
Our feelings are not reliable and often mislead us.  Here are some examples. (1) Sometimes Christians may feel worthless to God and others. This may be the way you feel, but God sees you as His precious child, a citizen of heaven, a special person.  (2) You may not feel God's presence in your life.  Does this mean his presence is not with you?  When you feel this way, read Hebrews 13:5, "Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you."  This promise is true regardless of our feelings.  (3) Sometimes we don't feel the strength to do what we know God wants us to do.  Remember, "I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength" (Philippians 4:13 NIV) -- if I trust Him and not my feelings.
Feelings are influenced by circumstances, people, and the devil.  We must test our feelings against the truths of his Word.  Satan will try to get you to doubt divine truths and make you feel down and discouraged.  Feelings must not be allowed to determine your decisions in life.  Your feelings of need for acceptance, approval, belonging, etc., may mislead you into making bad decisions that can ruin your life.
If you purchase your dream home based on your feelings and it is beyond your means, trouble is on the way.  Your decision was not based on truth.  The most basic truth is if you don't accept Jesus Christ as Savior, you will spend eternity separated from God in a place the Bible calls "hell," no matter how you feel about it.  Can you see the problem with making important decisions based on feelings. Controlling our feelings is not easy.  This quote reveals the reason:
"The human personality is said to consist of roughly four-fifths emotions and one-fifth intellect. This means that our decisions are arrived at on the basis of 80 percent emotions (feelings) and only 20 percent intellect (reasoning). To engage in a confrontation, or even a discussion, without taking emotions into account is to be only 20 percent effective in your dealings with people."Unknown source
Understanding the importance of human emotions is essential for successful interpersonal relationships.  And we must also recognize how powerful our own emotions and feelings are and let God's will from his Word override our feelings when it comes to making life's decisions.
Love, Jerry & Dotse

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Feelings Are Unreliable

Chuckle: A teenager complained to a friend: "My dad wants me to have all the things he never had as a boy – including straight A's on my report card."
Quote: “We must become acquainted with our emotional household; we must see our feelings as they actually are, not as we assume they are. This breaks their hypnotic and damaging hold on us.”  --Vernon Howard
    "Therefore, prepare your minds for action; be self-controlled; set your hope fully on the grace to be given you when Jesus Christ is revealed. As obedient children do not conform to the evil desires (feelings) you had when you lived in ignorance. But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do"  (1 Peter 1:13-15 NIV).
In my military pilot training, I was taught to fly aircraft by instruments. When flying in clouds, and other conditions of low visibility, it becomes necessary to fly solely from the information displayed on the aircraft's instruments.  One of the most difficult things to learn is how to ignore your feelings when you have no visual reference to the ground, or horizon, and believe what the instruments are telling you.  Trying to fly based on feelings can lead to disaster as vertigo sets in.  Your feelings are totally unreliable, and the factual information being displayed by the instruments must be trusted for safe flight.
Do you make life's decisions based on feelings?  Do you attend church only when you feel like it?  Do you live your life by moods and emotions?  Either your feelings master you, or you master your feelings. Don't get me wrong, emotions and feelings are God-given and are very important for a happy life. The problem is, our feelings can misdirect us.
Here are three true or false statements - I should live my life: (1) based on my feelings; (2) based on my faith; or (3) or based on facts.  If we live by our feelings, we will make many mistakes because they are unreliable.  Therefore this statement is false.  Whether or not we should live by faith depends on the object of that faith; not faith in self, some philosophy, new age concept, or some person who is unreliable.  Unless faith is in Christ, this statement is also false.  It's true, we should live based on facts -- the facts of God's Word.  Jesus said "You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free" (John 8:32 NIV).  God's Word is true whether I believe it or not - whether I act upon it or not - whether I feel good about it or not.
Bill Bright used a Train Diagram to put our feelings in perspective. The Engine represents the facts of God's Word; the Coal Car is faith which provides the fuel; and the Caboose represents feelings.  You cannot drive the train from the caboose.  Believing God's Word and acting on it is the key.  Like the aircraft instruments, God's Word always has an accurate and reliable message for me when my feelings get in the way of his will for my life.  If we are to win at Life, we must be good students of the Scriptures and make life's decisions based their truths, not how we feel.
Love, Jerry & Dotse